Despite the occasional frustrations, life with Maya is pretty special. In no particular order, here are a few of Maya's more delightful qualities.
She is strictly diurnal. That is, she wakes with the sun (in the summer, this means about 5 am, but at this time of year, it's not bad) and, when night falls, she becomes almost too sleepy to move. Every night, she tucks herself into her crate when we go to bed. Then, about four or five hours later, she gets out, paws clicking on the hardwood floors, and leaps into our bed. This is always very sweet at first -- she curls up very tightly into a little ball, conveniently placed -- and then, as the night goes on, becomes painful and intolerable by varying degrees. Generally, I end up clinging with both hands to stop myself from falling off the three inches of remaining bed, with my back cricked at some impossible angle and one of Maya's many elbows jammed into someplace soft.
Maya weighs 68 lbs when awake, but at night she seems to somehow triple this. But I love that she sleeps so soundly, that she patently adores sharing a bed (or tent) with us, and that every morning she is ready to go go go.
She is a good watchdog. Actually, this is something I often think of as a flaw. Maya watches out for everything, without regard to whether I think it may be dangerous (sound of large truck, bark bark bark. Neighbor raking his leaves, bark bark bark). But when we go camping, this combines with the first trait I mentioned to make for very secure nights. I go to sleep without listening for marauding bears or nibbling mice, completely certain that Maya will let me know if some critter comes too close. And, because she is so sleepy at night, she only wakes up for the important stuff.
She is a great lapdog. I know, not everyone wants a 68 lb lapdog, but mine is awfully comfortable. We recently bought two reclining armchairs from which to watch television or read in the evenings, thinking Maya would enjoy having the whole futon to herself. Ha. She spends all evening waiting for one of us to stand up, then steals the chair. When we are both sitting, she comes over and indicates a certain willingness to snuggle, then I pick her up and put her on my lap. Surprisingly, it really is comfortable.
She laughs a lot. Maya is an intense dog, and sometimes she is just intensely happy. It's infectious.
She is self-cleaning. I know many people bathe and/or groom their dogs. I am not one of those people. Maya has a coat that does not collect dirt, snow, or burrs, and she does not roll in things. Her natural smell is deeply, aromatically, pleasant to me -- she smells of forests, warm earth, pine nuts, and suede. She also grooms herself meticulously, licking every bit that she can reach and especially taking good care of her paws. Really, there just isn't much for me to add.
She loves hiking, camping, being together, and playing games. If only she also loved good books, politics, and beer, we'd have almost exactly the same interests in life.
A little bit about
Maya, a dog;
her adventures,
her self,
and our continuing efforts
to help her live with joy.
Monday, December 6, 2010
Sunday, December 5, 2010
December hiking
This weekend, I took Maya on a couple of hikes in one of our favorite 'secret' places, a tucked-away corner of National Forest land that nobody ever seems to visit. Places like this allow Maya to be off-leash and me to stop scanning constantly for approaching dogs/people/bicyclists/etc.. In the nearly two years I've been visiting this place, I've only ever run into one other person, who was only there to round up his cows.
Of course, that changed today. Maya was running around ahead of us, we were chattering away, and all of us were following an old forest service road. Suddenly, Maya heard something in the bushes and let out a giant alarm growl. Then she stopped, turned around, and ran to us.
This is a behavior chain I've worked hard to teach Maya, and I think it's pretty successful. Alert, bark/growl once, then run to me. I would like even better for her to simply be less alarmed, but that's taking longer to teach. If I teach her that alarm barking is always followed by running to me, then at least I control the situation from there. Which is why I have the only dog in the neighborhood who will bark at passing dogs just once, and then run inside the house to calm down.
The source of the growl-inducing scary noise was a jogger with two off-leash dogs. I was pretty startled to see her too. One of her dogs promptly ran at us, screaming and barking and showing its teeth. The jogger yelled at it to come back, which it ignored, but then it got nervous about us and ran back to her after all. Only, I guess she either wasn't carrying leashes or didn't bother to put them on. So both of her dogs, even the barking and growling one, stayed off-leash as she ran toward us.
This was weird to me. We moved off the trail, concentrated on rewarding Maya for appropriate behaviors, and waited. As the jogger ran past, she said, "Oh, don't worry, he's very friendly. Just likes to bark!" Meanwhile, her dog kept showing his very friendly teeth and barking his very friendly head off. It was never particularly worrying -- her dog kept his distance, and was clearly intimidated enough not to approach us -- but was something of a contrast in management choices.
The thing is, Maya is not a very friendly dog. She is reactive, sometimes aggressive, and emotionally volatile. This makes her potentially dangerous, and we treat her that way. Consequently, she never gets to chase people or otherwise bother them on trails. "He's really very friendly" dogs get to chase us and bother us all the time, and frequently do.
Oh well, it mostly serves to create good training opportunities for Maya, who spent the entire episode staring incredulously at the barking dog and whining softly. Not entirely calm, but responsive and relaxed enough to keep her cool. She is a good dog.
Of course, that changed today. Maya was running around ahead of us, we were chattering away, and all of us were following an old forest service road. Suddenly, Maya heard something in the bushes and let out a giant alarm growl. Then she stopped, turned around, and ran to us.
This is a behavior chain I've worked hard to teach Maya, and I think it's pretty successful. Alert, bark/growl once, then run to me. I would like even better for her to simply be less alarmed, but that's taking longer to teach. If I teach her that alarm barking is always followed by running to me, then at least I control the situation from there. Which is why I have the only dog in the neighborhood who will bark at passing dogs just once, and then run inside the house to calm down.
The source of the growl-inducing scary noise was a jogger with two off-leash dogs. I was pretty startled to see her too. One of her dogs promptly ran at us, screaming and barking and showing its teeth. The jogger yelled at it to come back, which it ignored, but then it got nervous about us and ran back to her after all. Only, I guess she either wasn't carrying leashes or didn't bother to put them on. So both of her dogs, even the barking and growling one, stayed off-leash as she ran toward us.
This was weird to me. We moved off the trail, concentrated on rewarding Maya for appropriate behaviors, and waited. As the jogger ran past, she said, "Oh, don't worry, he's very friendly. Just likes to bark!" Meanwhile, her dog kept showing his very friendly teeth and barking his very friendly head off. It was never particularly worrying -- her dog kept his distance, and was clearly intimidated enough not to approach us -- but was something of a contrast in management choices.
The thing is, Maya is not a very friendly dog. She is reactive, sometimes aggressive, and emotionally volatile. This makes her potentially dangerous, and we treat her that way. Consequently, she never gets to chase people or otherwise bother them on trails. "He's really very friendly" dogs get to chase us and bother us all the time, and frequently do.
Oh well, it mostly serves to create good training opportunities for Maya, who spent the entire episode staring incredulously at the barking dog and whining softly. Not entirely calm, but responsive and relaxed enough to keep her cool. She is a good dog.
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
blog reboot
I started this blog about six months after Maya came home. At the time, I was awfully fond of Maya, but also often very frustrated and unhappy. In a nutshell: Maya has a lot of issues, and life with her has not always been easy. When the negativity and misery got too much, I quit writing; I just didn't have much to say.
Things are better now, although often still challenging. I wish I were a better dog trainer, and I wish Maya found life in the human world easier. But most of the time, we are happy and we love being together.
Tomorrow, Maya turns 2 years old. I am hoping that this is a year full of great adventures, unfolding potential, and simple fun, for both of us. In that spirit, and because I know I'll appreciate having written some of the journey down, I am re-starting this blog.
Happy birthday, sweet dog.
Things are better now, although often still challenging. I wish I were a better dog trainer, and I wish Maya found life in the human world easier. But most of the time, we are happy and we love being together.
Tomorrow, Maya turns 2 years old. I am hoping that this is a year full of great adventures, unfolding potential, and simple fun, for both of us. In that spirit, and because I know I'll appreciate having written some of the journey down, I am re-starting this blog.
Happy birthday, sweet dog.
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